Anxiety: Avoid Avoidance

Anxiety: Avoid Avoidance

Anxiety – Why We Start to Avoid Anxiety often leads to avoidance, which, in the end, usually makes us feel worse. Sometimes it’s our thoughts. Anxiety often includes catastrophizing, thinking that the worst could happen. It can become a habit to wonder...
Anxiety: Our Inner Battle with the Future

Anxiety: Our Inner Battle with the Future

Anxiety is a word we hear more and more. Many people think of anxiety as nervousness, feeling jittery, or being on edge. From a psychological point of view, anxiety is more about how our mind works—especially how much time we spend worrying about the future. Anxiety...
10 Ways to Survive “Parenting in Place”

10 Ways to Survive “Parenting in Place”

Parenting Is Now More Stressful Since the onset of “stay at home” orders, I’ve talked with many parents who are dealing with the stress of being cooped up inside with kids for a long time. We love our kids, but the usual activities that burn off energy and keep them...
Steps for Coping with Adjustment

Steps for Coping with Adjustment

How do I cope with Difficult Changes? Adjustment to big changes in your life can cause anxiety and make it hard to cope.  It might be a move, it could be a change in jobs. A graduation, marriage, birth of a child. Often life changes are happy, expected, and yet still...
Holiday Survival, Part 2: Coping with Anxiety

Holiday Survival, Part 2: Coping with Anxiety

Holiday Worries The holidays often bring anxiety and worry. What gift will I buy for so and so? Who am I forgetting? Are these gifts good enough? Will they notice if I don’t get them anything? What if I don’t contribute to the office charity this year? Am I a bad...
Not Taking Care of Yourself?

Not Taking Care of Yourself?

The Cause Could be Anxiety We often know we are not taking care of ourselves. Whether it is not eating healthy food, not getting enough sleep, not exercising – most of us our quick to point out that we “just don’t have time”.  We may not get together with...